[Hmmh, after finishing this post I noticed that it could be misleading to read the headline and see C.J. afterwards. I want to point out that I do not want C.J. to be my future husband. :)]
Today I saw this not really beneficial picture of Christopher Jarecki carrying his baby (which he has with Alicia Silverstone).
I don't know why but i'm simply impressed by this picture.
Not because of Jarecki or the baby or things like that.
No, I'm impressed by the pride he carries his baby.
I want the father of my children (if this situation should ever arrive) to handle it like Jarecki.
I want to see pride in his eyes and in his whole body laguage.
He should care about his children.
I mean, I don't want to end as a housewife who just thinks about her house, household, dinner and raising the children. No. My husband has to care all as well.
"breeding the children" haha :D Personally, I don't even know who that Jarecki guy is, is he an actor or something? ^^
ReplyDeleteBut I agree, I'd want my future husband (in case I ever get marries, which I doubt) to be proud of our children too. And I wouldn't want to end up as a "desperate housewife" ;) either...
Talk to you on Facebook later,
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To be honest, I didn't hear of him before, too, and I don't even know more about him now.
ReplyDeleteI just saw that picture on a gossip page and thought about all this.
Why do you not want to get married? I mean, I know opinions that it's too expensive - or do you simply think it could be that it won't ever happen? ;)
I'm so sorry that we couldn't speak on Saturday, Sunday and Monday as well - our internet didn't work ...
And what's so funny about bree--- oh, shit! How, how ... badly. Oh no, I'll correct it. Thanks a lot.
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Oh, my God, my internet didn't work on Monday and Tuesday either ;D
ReplyDeleteI don't want to get married because I don't believe in marriage. I do believe in eternal love, but why force it together by marriage? I want to be free and have options, and I'd feel as if marriage would take all of these away.
I'm trying to work on a post for my blog, but it just won't work. I'm way too whiny and all I do is complain on my blog. God...
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Well, okay, that sounds logically. Hmm...
ReplyDeleteI don't want to marry for the sake of marrying. I want to somehow show the world that I've found somebody to spend my whole life with (I don't know how to discribe it).
On the other hand it's very intimate, too, which is why I wouldn't organise a big wedding party.
But one thing I'm sure of that I want to take over his name. Of course because it's simply practical, but on the other side - as I said before - I want to show our relatedness.
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That's funny because I probably wouldn't take on my husband's name, for the same reason I wouldn't marry in the first place. Because when I suddenly had a different name, it'd feel as if I'd to give up a part of my identity in order to make things work.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I am the last in my family line to carry that name, so if my children won't have it, it'd be dead (at least in our family).
Well, I don't have this problem of dying family names. :D
ReplyDeleteDeciding to stay with someone for his life is an important and severe decision, so changing my family name wouldn't be so hard for me, either, I think.
However, I'm sure that I will publish (what very probably never happen) by using my maiden name, just because I had have the idea as a teenager and it would feel like betrayal if I didn't do it.
Huh, this discussion gets longer and longer ...
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